WHAT WILL PEOPLE SAY? (LOG KYA KAHEN GY?)
Well, many of us must be familiar with this feeling. You all must have come across this subject on the internet many times. There is so much to read about this. I have seen many quotes and articles written on this topic all over the world. But unfortunately, this is affecting every third of us differently. I have seen many individuals in life which are suffering all because of “what will people say”. Many people are unable to reach to their dreams because “what people will say?” I am one of them too! Suffering from the same. I don’t know is it fine to tell myself here. You are all free to judge because no one going to stop to judge each other. No matter how much it’s going to hurt others. People are going to judge you no matter what! Brown families suffer this every single day. This has even discouraged me multiple times. My family has listened to it many times. Why we give more importance to “people” than what our conscience dictates. Well, I belong to Sheikh’s community. According to my observance, this is more effective on Sheik community. Most of their actions are done according to what people will say. I have tried many times to bring change in my home. Told them to stop thinking what people will say and do what needs to be done. But well said, “Speculation of a person can’t be changed if they don’t want to”. You just can’t hold someone hand and force them to think what they want instead of “what will people say” We just need to learn to digest and respect the other’s point of view.
You can’t choose Arts instead of Sciences “what will people say?”For girls, you are not supposed to get the higher education “4 years ki degree”, “itna parh k bhi handi roti Karni ha”, “Tumse konsa Kamai karwani ha” and none other than “what will people say?”
Your daughter is not married even she has crossed her 20s- “what will people say?”
May be she has some goals to achieve!
For boys start earning at you early 20s otherwise “what will people say?”
You have no right to choose your better half “what will people say?”
It will be considered a sin if you let your child gets married in some other caste- “what will people say?” and much more! Worry About you not people.
Everyone has their own reasons behind their actions! Please, it needed to be stopped. I have seen many close ones around me dying inside because of this – what will people say!
What I believe DO IT or SAY IT! Let it be! People will say whatever they want to say. They will at any cost at any condition! Please first stop yourself to put your nose in other’s matter. First bring the change in you then in your belongings. Give them your opinion only when they asked for it!
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